Being Someone
I have been on a search in this voyage of my life. Always trying to figure out something new, sometimes contradicting the same while the others have been an easy acceptance. And the greatest truth is that I am still on the phase of learning.
People say experience makes a man perfect, a person without any failure can never succeed blah blah …so my question to all those, how many times have you let me commit a mistake ? Did you? Mistakes are never bad but the thing is how much you learn out of it. So isn’t that we are double minded? Why we have to always say this, while contradicting if it happens to us. Suggestions cannot be useful until we have proved their worth on ourselves. Free suggestion simply KILLS.
We start expecting from our closer ones and I guess most of the time it results in a failure. We know the fact but we can never change. The thing is we want the other person to change according to our own convenience. We think that whatever we say is right. Yeah it may be sometimes but not always. A person may be right in his domain but the opposite can happen too.
I love being me!! And I am not wrong even. Let me explain the fact. For the whole life we have our commitments, duties and we need to abide by them. It’s not wrong even until and unless we get too much pushed in the matter that we have nothing else to look upon. For the whole life we live for our family and even society (many would disagree). Every moment is spent thinking about something. But this something never includes us. So how much time we spend on ourselves? Do we have any existence? So tell me am I being mean now? But frankly I am not. Why should we not live for ourselves? Well we have responsibilities, so who has stopped from getting that done? We say our life is hell but the actual thing is we make our life too boring that finally it ends up on no good line. People who do not have time for their own betterment can never do any good for anyone leave aside the so called society.
Living for others adds to pressure and nothing else resulting in succumbing of our self. Start being the best and you would be best for everyone. Never expect.
Comments
You have put your thoughts in a really very nice way, I always appreciate your this talent. I am somewhere agree with you frnd but as a good reader ;) my mind is contradicting you also at some points. I just want to mention that here, It is not that u r wrong but its just my way of thinking :)
Here I go
How can some1 else can let us dear, mistakes are not dependent on permission i guess ;)
while commiting it we dont know its a mistake, but after that we know that we should nt make it again, if we repeat, it means we r not getting perfect ;)
Absolutely true about .
< Living for others > do you really think saurov we live for others.
I dont think so. we only live for ourself -
Responsility for parents, making them happy --> bcoz we will get pain in our heart first if they are unhappy.
Live for Society --> Only because we want to get a good position in it and get appriciated by others for what we do.
whatever we think always include ourselves first than others. I think in this world every
human is selfish. we cry for some 1 close, do many things to make them happy and so on
coz WE love them and we will feel gud. most of the time it happens, exceptions can also be there :D
I am agree with the line
just want to point that every one works for their betterment but the problem is they dont know
what is better for them and how to achieve it. :)
I am fully agree with
so these r the points where our minds match and differ. but i tell you u r goin to be a gud writer u just need to Keep it up.
Nilanjana